I'm not dead. :) I've just lost interest in buzznet, that's all :)

who ever is lieing does it because they want to avoid conflict with you, but what they don't realize is that you know when they lie or you find out anyway making the almost avoided conflict even worse. they only thing I can say from personal experiance is to get away from this person if possible try and leave this person behind they are only holding you back.

so fucking true.

Easyer said than done...
Specially if this person is important to you...

*nods*

That person maybe important to you, But you obviously are not important to that person. which is something I know takes time but simply has to be accepted.

i am never going to except that. it's not even an opportunity.
it runs deeper than that, and things are complicated.
but yeah.

well than if that is the case and it certainly sounds like it is. the only thing you can do is accept that person for who they are and what they are going to do. dont expect them to change. we can still keep them in our hearts but we need to stop letting those displeasing things they do, conflict or create chaos within us causing stress anger and suffering of some kind. the main thing is not letting there actions control you or your happyness. I dont know if any of this helps but I hope if anything you keep learning from all situations you encounter.

thanks for your wise words. :)

your welcome, and dont get me wrong I am not trying to impose any kind of truth on you because no one can really tell you whats true or not, I just want to help you see a different side of the situation which you may or may not have seen already.